Wedding at deCordova Sculpture Park

Let’s talk about nontraditional weddings because Alice and Jacob’s day at the deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum in Lincoln, Massachusetts? An absolute masterpiece. It was a perfect July day with the sun shining, art everywhere, and two people doing their wedding exactly the way they wanted.

When I first got to the hotel, I found Alice and Jacob just hanging out together, totally relaxed, before slipping into separate rooms to get ready. There’s this old-school idea that couples shouldn’t see each other before the ceremony, but honestly, why not spend the morning with the person who calms you down the most? Loved that they did things their way.

They got ready on the same floor of the hotel, and I bounced between rooms, capturing the hilarious contrast. The groomsmen were ready in five minutes flat, then straight to Super Smash Bros. The bridesmaids took an hour and a half of hair, makeup, and a Spotify playlist literally called “The Good Shit.” Both groups had champagne though. Priorities.

Before Alice even put on her dress, we headed to the venue, and wow. DeCordova is wild in the best way. Floor-to-ceiling shelves in the library, gardens that feel like secret hideouts, and sculptures that make you stop and stare for way too long. It’s bold, artsy, and completely unforgettable.

Their ceremony overlooked the gardens, and in the most “them” move ever, Alice and Jacob met at the start of the aisle and walked down together. No one “giving away” anyone, just two people choosing each other. Their vows were so real. No cheesy promises or overused lines. Just honest words about their love, their quirks, and their future.

After the ceremony, we explored the grounds, taking photos among the sculptures and hidden garden corners. Every turn felt like a new discovery. Seriously, deCordova is a dream for couples who want a wedding with personality.

Then came the reception, and forget the traditional cake. Alice and Jacob had a pile of donuts instead. The pink raspberry icing one? Unreal. I love when couples toss the rulebook and go with what actually makes them happy.

As the sun set, I snuck the two of them away to the museum rooftop. Just the two of them watching their first sunset as a married couple, holding onto each other while the sky turned gold. Pure magic.

Nontraditional weddings are about making the day yours. Alice and Jacob did exactly that with art, donuts, and all. If you’re planning a wedding that’s a little off the beaten path, I’m so here for it. Let’s capture your day in a way that feels like you.

FAQ: Nontraditional Weddings at deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum

Can we get ready together on our wedding day? Absolutely! There’s no rule saying you have to stay apart all day. Alice and Jacob chose to spend their morning together before heading to separate rooms to get dressed, and it made for such a calm, comforting start to their day. If seeing your person helps ease your nerves, do it!

What’s special about getting married at deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum? DeCordova is a dream for couples looking for a unique, art-filled wedding experience. With its stunning gardens, bold sculptures, and charming library with floor-to-ceiling shelves, there’s beauty and creativity at every turn. It’s perfect for anyone who wants a setting that’s anything but ordinary.

Can we walk down the aisle together? Yes! Alice and Jacob met at the start of the aisle and walked down hand in hand. It was such a beautiful way to symbolize starting their marriage as equals, side by side. Your wedding should reflect your relationship, and if that means breaking tradition, go for it.

What are some fun nontraditional ideas for a wedding reception? Who says you need a big wedding cake? Alice and Jacob had a pile of donuts instead—and it was a hit! (Pro tip: the pink raspberry icing one was a crowd favorite.) Thinking outside the box, like having unique desserts or playful activities, adds personality and makes your wedding memorable.

Can we explore the sculptures for photos? Yes! After the ceremony, we wandered through the grounds, discovering hidden art pieces and gorgeous gardens. It’s a fantastic way to get candid, fun, and artsy photos while giving you both a quiet moment together amidst the celebration.

What’s a great spot for sunset photos at deCordova? The rooftop of the museum is pure magic at sunset. Alice and Jacob watched the sun go down, holding each other as husband and wife for the first time. It’s an intimate, breathtaking spot for those dreamy golden-hour shots.

Nontraditional weddings are all about doing what feels right for you. If you want a wedding that’s unique, personal, and a little outside the box, I’m 100% here for it. Let’s capture your day in a way that’s as bold and authentic as your love story.

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